Out of old patterns,into real connection

Trauma-sensitive support, at your own pace.


For singles and for people in challenging relationships who long for real connection.

I'm Nina, a trauma-sensitive singles and relationship coach and the author of “Zwischen Single-Sein & falscher Nähe” (Between Being Single & False Closeness).

With my book, the audiobook, conversation card sets, companion and reflection journals, meditations, audios, the HERZ.REISE app and other digital products, I accompany you on your way back to yourself, and toward relationships that are allowed to feel safe, honest and fulfilling.

All my products share the same attitude: mindful and close to everyday life. They invite you to get to know yourself better, to build emotional safety, and to meet yourself and others with more understanding, compassion and trust.

Choose whatever feels right for you.

Every person walks their own path, and your journey may begin in exactly that way.

Feel into which offer speaks to you most right now and can support you on your way.

Trust your intuition and choose what feels right to you, at your own pace and in your own personal way.

Please note: all products are in German.

What readers say


These words come from people who have read my book. They were published in German on Amazon and Google; here you read them translated into English.

I am deeply grateful for every single piece of feedback and glad to share these voices with you.

“I have read countless relationship guides, but this book really stands out for me. It is not just concentrated theory; the pages leave room for real, deep reflection with yourself. The book takes you “by the hand” and opens ways to connect with yourself like hardly any other. In every line and every illustration you can also feel how much love and heart went into writing this book. For me it is a true treasure, and I am endlessly glad I was given this book as a gift. I would never give it away again!”
Annalena SchmittAmazon review · translated from German
“Zwischen Single-Sein & falscher Nähe” is an honest, deep, and at the same time very approachable book. The thoughts and examples really make you think and help you understand your own relationship patterns better. I especially liked the clear, empathetic way difficult topics are addressed. A book that gives you the courage to allow healthy closeness without losing yourself in the process. Highly recommended!
MargaretaGoogle review · translated from German
“This book touched me deeply. I recognized myself in so many of its thoughts and got goosebumps more than once. A book that gives you the courage to truly meet yourself.”
MausAmazon review · translated from German

Read all reviews of the book on Amazon (German)

At your own pace

No countdown timers, no artificial scarcity. You decide when, and whether.

Safe & secure

Encrypted payment, no hidden costs, no tracking of your steps.

Trauma-sensitive

Language and design that don't push, but give you room and hold you.

Personally reachable

A real person to talk to. If you have questions, write to me; I answer myself.

Nina Hömmen, trauma-sensitive singles and relationship coach

Hi, I'm Nina


Certified trauma-sensitive singles and relationship coach, spirit coach, Heilberaterin (holistic counselor) and author.

I help people understand their inner patterns, notice their nervous system with care and build a deeper connection with themselves.

In my work I bring together psychology, body knowledge, spirituality and trauma-sensitive support to create a protected space for personal growth and lasting change.

My heart's wish is to support people in meeting themselves with more understanding, transforming emotional imprints and discovering new ways into love, closeness and connection.

Curious about the story behind my book? (in German)

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